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Tuesday, 24 March 2015

Accepting the Unchangeable and Moving On


After something amazing, there's always the long fall down. Things will change and nothing stays amazing for long. When it's over, It's so easy to just live in the past, forever wishing for things to be as they were again. But that isn't the way to do it. I've always believed that you should let things go and live in the moment which is why I think it's a fundamental mistake to let the fear of the end prevent you from enjoying the experience. If you live life thinking about how things will end, you'll miss out on what's happening. I've done it before, I reckon we all have.

People say you should look ahead but I disagree. I think it's important to look in all directions and never look one way for too long. Look around, embrace the world as it is right now. Look forward to what you have coming and plan what you want to do. Look back on the memories and smile. Look around you at what's happening and enjoy it.

It's very easy to keep looking back on what you should have done or alternatively what you wish you could do more of but it's important not to fixate yourself on what can not be. The important thing to remember is that it's not easy, when something happens that was so incredible it brings tears to your eyes, it's extremely difficult to get over it. It takes time but there is hope, you just can't always see it.

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